Do this and You'll be Welcome Anywhere...

Why to read a book to find out how to win friends? Why not study the technique of the greatest winner of friends the world has ever known? Who is he? You may meet him tomorrow coming down the street. When you get within ten feet of him, he will almost jump out of his skin to show how much he likes you. And you know that behind this show of affection on his part, there are no ulterior motives: he doesn't want to sell you any real estate, and he doesn't want to marry you.

Did you ever stop to think that a dog is the only animal that doesn't have to work for a living? A hen has to lay eggs, a cow has to give milk, and a canary has to sing. But a dog makes his living by giving you nothing but love. 

Dale Carnegie

It isn't Easy to Stay Motivated

It isn't easy to stay motivated. There are so many distractions, fall outs and conspiracies to drag you down. People would go out of the way to bring somebody down. Only if they had worked that hard for self improvement, mutual camaraderie and love! But that doesn't happen. People are not always born to love, respect and nurture!

What to do to avoid such people, or rather conquer such people! Stay calm and calculated, remain firm on your ground, and never let them take away your happiness and composure. In every organization, big or small, we find jealous souls who would draw daggers on your back, spitting venom against you and trying their best to implicate you in affairs you don't even know of. These people can't think beyond a point and can't see the larger picture. They could also be under the impression that they are immortals and they would live forever hurting others and conspiring against them.

But you are different. You have a vision and dreams and you can see the larger picture. Face such people, don't run away..but face them gracefully and with great dignity. Your replies to their conspiracies have to be wisely calculated and elite. When you don't drop down to their level, such people will sulk, get tired, get disappointed and die a gradual death of frustration. Stay motivated all the time to achieve your objectives. It isn't easy, but great achievements don't come easily, do they? 

Motivational Quotes

Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment. : Jim Rohn


Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and they will surprise you with their ingenuity. : George Patton


If you do not hope, you will not find what is beyond your hopes.


The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyond them into the impossible. : Arthur C. Clarke


We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore,is not an act but a habit. : Aristotle


Work spares us from three evils: boredom, vice, and need. : Voltaire


You cannot plough a field by turning it over in your mind.


Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking. : William B. Sprague


Nothing will ever be attempted if all possible objections must first be overcome. : Samuel Johnson


When the best things are not possible, the best may be made of those that are. - Richard Hooker


Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm. : Ralph Waldo Emerson


No great man ever complains of want of opportunities. : Ralph Waldo Emerson


Men's best successes come after their disappointments. : Henry Ward Beecher


They can because they think they can. : Virgil


Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out. : Robert Collier


Keep away from small people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.- Mark Twain


There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. -Albert Einstein

Never Give Up

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.


He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.


A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.


As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.


Remember the five simple rules to be happy:


1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.

2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happens.

3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.

4. Give more.

5. Expect less from people but more from yourself.





:Ryan Baloy

Spread Love & Happiness...

Being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the biggest curse. A physical disease can be cured with medicines, but the only cure for loneliness and despair is love. Many people in the world today are dying for the lack of food, but there are many more dying for just a little love.

We can help others by extending a little love, care, kindness and understanding every time we meet them. Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a great difference in lives of people. Giving kindness not only helps others, it makes us happy too. Therefore, we should open our loving hearts and help others make a new start.

As custodians of this planet, it is our duty to help the helpless, house the homeless, love the unloved and care for the uncared. We are born with rich blessings of love, compassion and forgiveness and we must share these blessings with all the humans and animals of the world.

A Drop of Honey

Someone once said that a drop of honey attracts more flies than a million gallons of gall. This is true in every sphere of life. When we talk to people with love, respect and empathy; they feel a great amount of gratification and develop an immediate liking for us.

A person who speaks sweet and remains calm under all circumstances is accepted by all. People like such men, and look at them with respect and admiration. Who would not like to be in the company of someone, who does not challenge their integrity and wisdom; and says nice things about them!

People remember you for being gentle and saying kind words to them all their lives. Everybody has their own battles to fight and a kind word comes as a gentle breeze to their parched lives.

Remember to be nice and gentle with everyone you meet. In a world of cold reception, a lovely smile, a warm hand-shake and a kind word creates magic and fills people with love and enthusiasm. 

Why Lament…

We lament our unfulfilled desires every now and then. When we can't achieve our dreams, we feel sad and even regret our past decisions which we think are the reasons for our situation today. This remorse affects our present, and also the future; as we are not able to take right decisions in this situation.

As human beings, we are born with emotions of love, hatred, remorse, happiness etc. However, by controlling our emotions and not letting remorse affect our present and future is the best way to to live life fully. It is easy to fall in the trap of feeling victimized, and thinking why God has done this to us. But to feel like a victor and let eternal love and happiness rule our lives takes effort and courage.

Don't let past mistakes drag you down. Be a victor and not a victim! Stand up, hold your head high, draw a smile and walk with grace! Remember, happiness is just a state of mind and it is entirely up to you to decide to be happy and cheerful!